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SUMMER BLUE

SUMMER BLUE

Cute outfits, festivals, long days, feel good weather, cookouts, these are some of the things I love about the summer. 

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JUST LIKE A BUTTERFLY, SHE BLOSSOMED INTO HER OWN ...

SELF ESTEEM

JUST LIKE A BUTTERFLY, SHE BLOSSOMED INTO HER OWN ...

Fast forward to the mid 2010’s ... After years of scrambling trying to validate myself, until one day it hit me. It hit me real hard.   Nikisha Riley from Urban Bush Babes, ( a dope online blog that I stumbled across around 2012 or 2013 ) wrote this article on “30 things I learned on my way to 30!” A few main points hit me right to the core, especially number 9 “True Beauty”. It was after reading that I was inspired to really accept me as me and not wishing I was this imaginary person that fit the...

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YOU ARE QUIET & BORING ...

YOU ARE QUIET & BORING ...

      Yeah. This is what was said about me while growing up in my early teens either directly or indirectly ( behind my back ).        These words did hurt me and I took offense. But as I grew up, I realized the people who said these things about me truly didn't know me but at the same time, I only allowed them to see this side of me.   It didn't help that I already had low confidence about myself so these words stung even deeper. Yeah, at times I was quiet but that was...

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AWKWARD & ECLECTIC

AWKWARD & ECLECTIC

Living in Jamaica, Queens, I did not match the culture of what people thought a 10 year girl would be interested living in the hood. Quirky, awkward, social anxiety like it was no ones business. A regular semugular fegular girl. I was trying to figure it all out.   

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THREE REASONS WHY YOU MAY BE SEEKING VALIDATION

CONFIDENCE LOVE YOURSELF SELF ESTEEM VALIDATION VALIDATION NOT NEEDED

THREE REASONS WHY YOU MAY BE SEEKING VALIDATION

 If you've came this far from clicking the link from my Instagram bio, glad you joined the party! I have a low attention span such as many. So lets dive in. So lets face it. At one time or another, most of us found ourselves seeking validation or approval from others. We may have looked for reassurance from those who have our best interest at heart to see if we are on the right track with a business idea, thought or even an outfit we may need feedback on. This in itself is fine since we may to need...

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